He will NOT take me to the movies on the first date.
He'll open the door for me, but won't get mad if I open it for him sometimes too.
He won't say anything about me not eating meat.
He'll make eye contact, instead of staring at my chest.
He'll have good manners.
and be polite to other people i.e. waiters, or anyone of service.
We'll talk about important issues, or share witty anecdotes.